Malacca Boleh!

Malacca has recently officiated a school for pregnant teens in Malacca
It can hold 40 students(female of course) and they provide education in the morning and krafwork and parenting skills in the evening
It also provide dorms for their students
All races and religion are welcome
Priority is given to people in malacca but will open to other state is there is vacancies
Do not worry about the facilities and the quality of this school because Malacca government has allocated 500 thousand ringgit for this

The Star online qouted this as Hope For Pregnant Teens
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/9/2/nation/6967031&sec=nation

I was really happy when I heard about this project...
Many people including NGO and the public disagree about this programme because they feel that it is inviting and encouraging pre-marital sex or sex outside the wedlock
I agree with their view about this but then again shouldn't we have a look at a greater aspect and think outside the box?

Let me say that I'm against pre-marital sex because sex outside marriage is wrong for the Catholic faith and also other religion

You might be wondering why in the hell that I'm happy about this project and support it
Its because I feel that by this way...those who have made mistakes in their lives will be given another chance to redeem themselves and also give the little cute baby hope to live
By this project, I believe that abortion and baby dumping cases would reduce tremendously
Although this kind of school might not be suitable for our custom which is the East
But I really hope and pray that the public will be more open to accept this so that teens who made mistakes and are in trauma may find peace and support from this project
Which one of us have not make mistakes in our lives?
What really makes us human and strong is not by condemming others but show our support and encouragement towards them
All of us should give pregnant teen girls another chance to live their life and bring up their baby properly and correctly
This school also provides couselling and guidance which is fantastic because pregnant teens might be in trauma after falling to honour their families name or her boyfriend leave her to bring up the baby all alone

This might be a voodoo to our society and culture
But I urge all of you (the society)  to accept this project as a way for these teens to turn into a new leaf and this project is also for the better good of mankind

What would you rather see?
A dead infant in a dustbin?
Or a pregnant teen seeking education and skills to bring up her baby and also giving her baby a chance to live
I would also urge pregnant teens to seek PROFESSIONAL help when dealing with these kind of cases because your friends might not be educate to educate you or advise you on these
For Christians you can always seek help from you local Priest or Pastor
For Muslim you can seek help from your Utaz
For those who prefer local support group then you can check out this website
http://www.wao.org.my/

But as I said I disagree with pre-marital sex so I hope that our country Malaysia shall educate youths on Sex and the importance of it by Sex Education in schools

"Prevention is better then cure"

This post is dedicated to You

I wrote this cause I didn't have anything else to write
and she memang very perasan de...so she ask me to write about her =p

Hmmm....I think I first saw her was at cathecism(sunday school)
But knowing that I'm such a shy person~~~
I didn't put any concern to it
Cause my life wasn't in path at that time also
Okay...enough about me ^^

I think I first met her or communicate with her through sms
I asked her to attend a camp organised my MAJODI
She wasn't able to attend

Actually I just remember that in my confirmation camp, she was in the same group as me XD
So during the camp the was this game called Captain Ball
To those who know what I'm talking about  [=)]
If  you don't know...err....well too bad... =P
Here's the basic
Only girls can score =.="
When comes to sports I"m abit competitive
I feel that when playing a game you gotta give your best
Unless your playing for leisure
So...I remembered that I was like ask her to run here~~run there~~jump~~don't just stand there move!!
Hahahahahahaha~~~I really put her under alot of pressure...Hahahaha

She was also very mysterious and kinda hard to figure out
So as time passes by...
As our friendship grew
I realize that shes actually a very nice, supportive and strong person or girl^^

What surprises me the most is her honesty
She is very straight forward when talking about herself
You know what I mean~~~
We usually won't tell people that we just met about or problems and weaknesses
But she did
and because of that our friendship grew stronger day by day
She's really a sporting, out going, funny, caring and not forgetting crazy!! =)
She's really obsess with this animal which I caught...
But too bad....its freeeeee~~~ =D

So yesterday we hang out together at DP for dinner then Jonker for later
I have this muslim friend who was fasting
He could wait and decide a place to eat
But SHE...who is not fasting...can wait to eat xD
Memang babi...^^
Later that day
We walk to Jonker
If  the gang followed her direction then we'll probably end up at Alor Gajah....Trust me....xD

So we've reached Jonker...after walking here and there..
Forcing me to eat the potatoe on a stick
I guess she was shy to eat alone cause later people might think she's greedy or something *which she is* ^^
She has this son...the dude who was fasting
She told me and my friends go ahead first cause she want to buy some bangle or something like that
So her son....ask me where is she going...
I said don't know...maybe buy Pan&$
When she came back...
She bullied him as usual...saying
"How could u be so perverted"
When She tengah pakat with me to kenakan him...XD

Later my friend...Matphew(by Joo Sing) ^^
Was hungry...but put the blame on me...hahaha
We entered a shop to have a drink
Her friend need to go back asap
So she left the shop
We(the gang) was abit delay
So we lost her
For the first time in my life...
I see Her so terrified and scared..
She didnt talk or laugh or smile which she ALWAYS DO!
Pucat siot!

But everything return to normal =)

Oh ya...she's really a good dancer...AMAZING!!

I don't know if I've been a good friend towards her
But certainly she has been really good to me =)

So I hope I can show my appreciation of our friendship through this post.... =)