Is Love = Sex?

Is love sex?  Well yes and no. From a married couple point of view, yes it is. When God created us, He said ‘be fruitful and multiply.” Genesis 35:11. So that was God’s plan for us. For He loves us so much, He wants to see us multiply, multiply in His grace.


Sex is an expression of love and commitment of a MARRIED couple. If you’re just an 18 years old kid, don’t even think of it. Sex is not mere pleasure. When you have sex, your body makes a commitment to each other. That commitment means you will be there for her through happy and sad times.


If you say that, you think that you’re up to it, and then let me ask you a question. What if she gets PREGNANT? Other related question pops up. Are you up for it? Are you ready to sustain two more lives? Are you financially dependable? Are you matured enough to take care of the girl you’ve just made pregnant and what about the baby? If you’re answer is NO, then I shall advise you to think twice before you indulge in pre-marital sex.


Don’t get me wrong, sex is not wrong; it’s pre-marital sex that is wrong. In fact sex is sacred and holy in union of two married couples. It only becomes wrong when you indulge in sex without commitment, which is pre-marital sex.


The question of contraception arises. ‘What if I practice safe sex?’ If safe sex is acceptable, the sex has lost its value and holiness. Using contraception is another way of telling a person, ‘I want to use you, with no strings attached.’ Ladies, if a man wants to have sex to you using contraception, then he does not love you at all. He’s just using you. Don’t be fooled by his words or his actions, because words are merely words.


To give you a great example of love are the love our Lord Jesus Christ gives to us. If you’ve read your bible then you’ll know what I mean. Jesus seems to speak really beautiful English. That’s true too. But Jesus didn’t merely said words to comfort us, He does what He says. He came down on earth to fulfil His Father’s command. He came down to fulfil His prophecy. His action speaks louder than words. That’s true love. When you come down as a king, lead a sinless life, and die a saviour for our sins. That’s love. 


Until and unless your partner shows you that much of  love and affection, his not ready for a commitment. That kind of commitment can only be shown through MARRIAGE. When a couple takes their vows in front of the priest, they promise each other the commitment they have with each other, that they’ll be there for happy and sad times, no mountain too high they can’t reach, of storm too big they can’t overcome. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, do not be confuse with the meaning of love. Don’t be fooled by it too, for there will be a lot predators out there prowling the earth seeking the ruins of souls.

Every action has its consequences, you need to bear with it and be responsibl. Don’t run away like a coward.

Berani Buat, Berani Tangguh.

The Wonder Of Prayer

Have you ever felt that God was turning a deaf ear towards your prayer?

Like as though God is somewhere else when you need Him the most?

How many of us continue having faith when things don't go our way.

Some of us gives up and lose hope when things turn bad

And some of us says that we have faith that God has plans for us in our lives. But do we really believe that God has a plan for us? Or are you merely saying it to comfort ourselves? The reason I'm writing the blog post is because I want to testify the wonders God have done in my life for the past 3 months. 
Have you ever felt that God have abandon you? Like He was guiding you all this while and He just let go off your hand? Leaving you stranded and lost? Well I did. I was so down until i said "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me." I never thought I would ever reach to that point in my life. That was because all this while I was spiritually high and I believe in the wonders God has done in my life. I was really down, sad and disappointed because many things have not gone the way I wanted it to be. For the past 3 months i kept complaining to God asking why are all these happening to me. It was really disappointing to see all my friends in college while i'm stuck in the limbo. Uncertain of my future, Uncertain of myself. Uncertain of God. But although all of that has happen, I knew God was somewhere, looking at me, testing my faith, testing me, how much do I believe in myself, and especially in God. So the least i could do at this moment, is to pray. I prayed and ask God constantly about my future, and what He wants from me. For 3 months I kept praying the same prayer. To my great surprise, God answered my prayers. Not one, not two, but many folds. My mom called me up while I was in JB and she told me that I will be able to go college next year, my brother helped me to buy a laptop, and important of them all,
I AM CLOSER TO GOD THAN I HAVE EVER BEEN!
You see, prayer need patience and sincerity.
I always knew God has a plan for me. He is putting me through this because He wants to test me and see how strong is my faith, and how much do I believe in my faith. To my surprise, it was really little.
So as long as you have faith in Him, He shall never forsake you. In fact He will never forsake you, it is you who is running from His endless blessings.
As long as you pray sincerely from your heart, and if its for a good cause, God will grant your prayers! Thats for sure! I can TESTIFY to that! =)
Thank you Lord Jesus, for always being there for me, and especially holding my hand again and again when I constantly let go of your hand. In future I'll know there will be times when God will test my faith again, and I will never ever lose hope, for I know He has great plans for me!


Thank you so much Lord Jesus...I love you

Hate the Sin, But Love the Sinner