Is love sex? Well yes and no. From a married couple point of view, yes it is. When God created us, He said ‘be fruitful and multiply.” Genesis 35:11. So that was God’s plan for us. For He loves us so much, He wants to see us multiply, multiply in His grace.
Sex is an expression of love and commitment of a MARRIED couple. If you’re just an 18 years old kid, don’t even think of it. Sex is not mere pleasure. When you have sex, your body makes a commitment to each other. That commitment means you will be there for her through happy and sad times.
If you say that, you think that you’re up to it, and then let me ask you a question. What if she gets PREGNANT? Other related question pops up. Are you up for it? Are you ready to sustain two more lives? Are you financially dependable? Are you matured enough to take care of the girl you’ve just made pregnant and what about the baby? If you’re answer is NO, then I shall advise you to think twice before you indulge in pre-marital sex.
Don’t get me wrong, sex is not wrong; it’s pre-marital sex that is wrong. In fact sex is sacred and holy in union of two married couples. It only becomes wrong when you indulge in sex without commitment, which is pre-marital sex.
The question of contraception arises. ‘What if I practice safe sex?’ If safe sex is acceptable, the sex has lost its value and holiness. Using contraception is another way of telling a person, ‘I want to use you, with no strings attached.’ Ladies, if a man wants to have sex to you using contraception, then he does not love you at all. He’s just using you. Don’t be fooled by his words or his actions, because words are merely words.
To give you a great example of love are the love our Lord Jesus Christ gives to us. If you’ve read your bible then you’ll know what I mean. Jesus seems to speak really beautiful English. That’s true too. But Jesus didn’t merely said words to comfort us, He does what He says. He came down on earth to fulfil His Father’s command. He came down to fulfil His prophecy. His action speaks louder than words. That’s true love. When you come down as a king, lead a sinless life, and die a saviour for our sins. That’s love.
Until and unless your partner shows you that much of love and affection, his not ready for a commitment. That kind of commitment can only be shown through MARRIAGE. When a couple takes their vows in front of the priest, they promise each other the commitment they have with each other, that they’ll be there for happy and sad times, no mountain too high they can’t reach, of storm too big they can’t overcome. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, do not be confuse with the meaning of love. Don’t be fooled by it too, for there will be a lot predators out there prowling the earth seeking the ruins of souls.
Sex is an expression of love and commitment of a MARRIED couple. If you’re just an 18 years old kid, don’t even think of it. Sex is not mere pleasure. When you have sex, your body makes a commitment to each other. That commitment means you will be there for her through happy and sad times.
If you say that, you think that you’re up to it, and then let me ask you a question. What if she gets PREGNANT? Other related question pops up. Are you up for it? Are you ready to sustain two more lives? Are you financially dependable? Are you matured enough to take care of the girl you’ve just made pregnant and what about the baby? If you’re answer is NO, then I shall advise you to think twice before you indulge in pre-marital sex.
Don’t get me wrong, sex is not wrong; it’s pre-marital sex that is wrong. In fact sex is sacred and holy in union of two married couples. It only becomes wrong when you indulge in sex without commitment, which is pre-marital sex.
The question of contraception arises. ‘What if I practice safe sex?’ If safe sex is acceptable, the sex has lost its value and holiness. Using contraception is another way of telling a person, ‘I want to use you, with no strings attached.’ Ladies, if a man wants to have sex to you using contraception, then he does not love you at all. He’s just using you. Don’t be fooled by his words or his actions, because words are merely words.
To give you a great example of love are the love our Lord Jesus Christ gives to us. If you’ve read your bible then you’ll know what I mean. Jesus seems to speak really beautiful English. That’s true too. But Jesus didn’t merely said words to comfort us, He does what He says. He came down on earth to fulfil His Father’s command. He came down to fulfil His prophecy. His action speaks louder than words. That’s true love. When you come down as a king, lead a sinless life, and die a saviour for our sins. That’s love.
Until and unless your partner shows you that much of love and affection, his not ready for a commitment. That kind of commitment can only be shown through MARRIAGE. When a couple takes their vows in front of the priest, they promise each other the commitment they have with each other, that they’ll be there for happy and sad times, no mountain too high they can’t reach, of storm too big they can’t overcome. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, do not be confuse with the meaning of love. Don’t be fooled by it too, for there will be a lot predators out there prowling the earth seeking the ruins of souls.
Every action has its consequences, you need to bear with it and be responsibl. Don’t run away like a coward.
Berani Buat, Berani Tangguh.
